…tedComponent` when possible (#3837)

## Description

Shouldn't need
software-mansion/react-native-reanimated#8655 to
work properly

Instead of using `createAnimatedComponent`, which does a lot more stuff
other than setting up events, we can set up events ourselves using
Reanimated's `NativeEventsManager` directly.

The implementation in the PR should be independent of the Reanimated
version being used, as long as it's a relatively modern one.

## Test plan

<details>
<summary>Tested on this stress-test</summary>

```jsx
import React, { Profiler, useEffect, useRef } from 'react';
import { ScrollView, StyleSheet, View } from 'react-native';
import { GestureDetector, usePanGesture } from 'react-native-gesture-handler';
// import { PerfMonitor } from 'react-native-gesture-handler/src/v3/PerfMonitor';
import Animated, {
  useAnimatedStyle,
  useSharedValue,
} from 'react-native-reanimated';

const DATA = new Array(500).fill(null).map((_, i) => `Item ${i + 1}`);

function Item() {
  const translateX = useSharedValue(0);

  const style = useAnimatedStyle(() => {
    return {
      transform: [{ translateX: translateX.value }],
    };
  });

  const pan = usePanGesture({
    // disableReanimated: true,
    onUpdate: (event) => {
      'worklet';
      console.log('pan onUpdate', event.handlerData.changeX);
    },
    onStart: () => {
      'worklet';
      console.log('pan onStart', _WORKLET);
    },
    onEnd: () => {
      'worklet';
      console.log('pan onEnd');
    },
    onBegin: () => {
      'worklet';
      console.log('pan onBegin');
    },
    onFinalize: () => {
      'worklet';
      console.log('pan onFinalize');
    },
    onTouchesDown: () => {
      'worklet';
      console.log('pan onTouchesDown');
    },
  });

  return (
    <View style={{ height: 80, padding: 16, backgroundColor: 'gray' }}>
      <GestureDetector gesture={pan}>
        {/* <View collapsable={false} style={{opacity: 0.5}}> */}
        <Animated.View
          style={[
            { backgroundColor: 'red', height: '100%', aspectRatio: 1 },
            style,
          ]}
        />
        {/* </View> */}
      </GestureDetector>
    </View>
  );
}

function Benchmark() {
  return (
    <ScrollView
      style={{ flex: 1 }}
      contentContainerStyle={{ flexGrow: 1, gap: 8 }}>
      {DATA.map((_, index) => (
        <Item key={index} />
      ))}
    </ScrollView>
  );
}

const TIMES = 35;

export default function EmptyExample() {
  const times = useRef<number[]>([]).current;
  const [visible, setVisible] = React.useState(false);

  useEffect(() => {
    if (!visible && times.length < TIMES) {
      setTimeout(() => {
        setVisible(true);
      }, 24);
    }

    if (times.length === TIMES) {
      // calculate average, but remove highest and lowest
      const sortedTimes = [...times].sort((a, b) => a - b);
      sortedTimes.shift();
      sortedTimes.shift();
      sortedTimes.pop();
      sortedTimes.pop();
      const avgTime =
        sortedTimes.reduce((sum, time) => sum + time, 0) / sortedTimes.length;

      console.log(`Average render time: ${avgTime} ms`);

      // console.log(JSON.stringify(PerfMonitor.getMeasures(), null, 2));
      // PerfMonitor.clear();
    }
  }, [visible]);

  return (
    <View style={styles.container}>
      {visible && (
        <Profiler
          id="v3"
          onRender={(_id, _phase, actualDuration) => {
            times.push(actualDuration);
            setTimeout(() => {
              setVisible(false);
            }, 24);
          }}>
          <Benchmark />
        </Profiler>
      )}
    </View>
  );
}

const styles = StyleSheet.create({
  container: {
    flex: 1,
  },
});

```
</details>

Before: 614ms, after: 576ms

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Co-authored-by: Michał Bert <[email protected]>